Does it matter how you look ?

Normally people attract with looks. If someone is looking good then people think that he or she is intelligent. Why we always compare someone’s intelligence and capabilities with looks?

 It is not mandatory that if someone is looking good then he is also intelligent. I am not saying that you are not intelligent because you look good, off course you are. But here I am talking about those who are intelligent enough but underestimated by their looks. It might be possible that the other one is more intelligent as compare to you but you just ignore them because of their looks.

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Why we don’t give priority to inner beauty? “The beauty of a soul” why we don’t prefer it? Our inner beauty never fades away. It spreads happiness and joy everywhere.

Let’s take an example – you are in a restaurant and you see a beautiful lady sit next behind you, her dressing sense outstanding, She has an eye catching personality. But when she calls a waiter, She speaks with him very rudely and using harsh words while communicating with others. Do you still like her? (If you prefer outer beauty more than inner peace then you will definitely feel attracted. Lol 😀 )

But truly no one likes this kind of personality. Your behaviour with others, the softness of your word is something that makes you splendid. A good personality with right attitude makes difference but if anyone is missing from both of these then you are not perfect. If you have only look, neither good attitude nor inner beauty then trust me no one will gonna love you.

Look, it may be possible that you have different perspective on the same topic, but I am the kind of girl who gives priority to the beauty of soul, to inner peace, to the soft nature of a person and as a human being we must have these qualities according to me.

Here the most important thing is, how you treat the people who are at the lower position from you or how you treat those who are at below from your status, from your level. It says everything about you, which kind of personality do you have or what’s your attitude almost everything. One can know everything about you just through the way you are talking.

Always remember in your mind that nothing is permanent in this world, not your money, not your status, it all fades away with the passage of time, if something is permanent, it’s only your behaviour your attitude by which people will love you and keep you in their mind even after you will no longer in this world, your words, your attitude, your behaviour will remember by others. So always try to be polite with everyone.

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Looks matter, when we talk about dating, relationships or marriages, yes off course it is a life changing decision so everyone wants that he or she gets a guy or girl who is good looking as well as intelligent enough to deal with the practical ground of life after marriage. But it does not mean that if you don’t look good then you will not get a perfect partner. God already made someone in this world for everyone and whatever you will get in life, trust me it’s best for you. Almighty God already plans everything for us. We just have to do our “Karma” and leave everything on God, he will return the best.

Generally we think about others opinion that what people think about us, about our looks.  Why someone else opinion is mandatory for us? Why we think so much about people and their likes and dislikes?  Why we don’t want to show our original side, only because we afraid that, if I show my original side then people won’t accept me. We afraid, because we think, nobody is going to like me after that. If a person wants to post his or her pic on social media then he or she applies so many filters before uploading it. We think that by this way people like us and we get likes. We are losing our originality. Why we don’t accept others as they are.

Look, don’t think too much about community and society. You are beautiful from inside as well as outside. What people think about you, it’s none of your business. Do good always and be good into your perception, never do anything wrong with anyone. Never use harsh words for anyone.

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“Looks” is temporary but the inner beauty of your soul reflects everywhere, at every stage of your life.

Remember few points

  1. Looks does not matter if you are sincere, polite, humble and intelligent.
  2. If you are pretty but you don’t have kindness, knowledge and softness then your beauty is waste.
  3. If you are beautiful and proudy no one will like you.
  4. Think twice before speak anything, no matter you are beautiful or not, your words should make sense in a positive way.
  5. Try to be fit even if you are not beautiful, consciousness about fitness is must for everyone, also it is important for our health.
  6. Wear a smile on your face always, a smile can make a big difference because a smiling face always looks good.
  7. Be confident because it shows that you are beautiful from within. It helps you to look good in all aspects.
  8. Be grateful for everything, it shows your inner strength and peace.
  9. If you want to look good then love yourself first. Nothing is better from self-loved person. (Remember don’t be selfish, here I am talking about “Self – love”)  
  10. Keep your all senses with you always and remember life is for living, for enjoying, for spreading happiness to everyone.

My dear friend, you are truly a pure soul, a beautiful person and a soft hearted, humble personality. You don’t need any kind of validation from anyone regarding your beauty and looks.

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