Most of you are already aware about what I am saying. Yes it is true that our word reflects our character. How you talk with others, says everything about you. I see so many people in my life, who shows that they are the great personalities, they try to show-off their achievement but when they start talking, their only aim is to distract you, they always try to belittle you, they simply want to say that they are the best and you are at the lower level and you don’t know anything about society.
They feel that they are the greatest, only they are good and rest of people are worse. I really don’t understand why people behave like this? In this world every person is unique, their personalities, their capabilities, their talents, strength everything is different. There are so many things in this world that one can do but maybe you cannot. And also so many things are there that you can do but others cannot.
I just wonder whenever I think about it, how easily some people find others mistake and point out them, without realizing that what they are doing with others. Why people expect good behaviour from others without doing good with them.
We all have some people in our life who talks behind our back, who spreads negativity about us, they always search your mistakes, always looking for a reason to make you feel low or to belittle you.
And the great thing is, you already know about their habit, you know very well that so and so person is always says badly about you but you cannot do anything. We want to stop them, we want to say them that their unfavourable talk makes us irritated and hurt a lot but we cannot say directly because sometimes they are our relatives, our neighbour or our colleagues. So we try to maintain our dignity without saying anything.
Your words are a mirror
For those who always spread negativity about others,
My dear, if you spread unfavourable talks and negativity about other people then remember it hurts the one, you aimed about but your words damage your own reputation as well as credibility.
If you always looking for negativity then you easily find it but in this process you make yourself a negative person who always says shit about others. Whatever you say, it shows your own character, your own personality.
Whenever you try to judge or criticise other person unknowingly you give a negative message about yourself.
If you spread positivity then people will love you, they like you as well respect you people will want to listen you and your thoughts but if you spread negativity then no one likes you, people will look at you and remind their selves that you manipulate things, they will start maintaining certain distance from you.
Some traits of avoiding negative conversation –
- Never involve in any negative conversation – You should always refuse negative talks whenever you feel someone spread negativity or saying something bad about other, it is better to make a distance from him/her. If you join that person who spreading negativity then he or she will make you believe in their talk and literary you will not realize how you join them. It is human tendency that people enjoy while talking about others or talking about others fault. We don’t want to join that conversation intentionally but unknowingly it happens.
- Never be a part of a group who talks poorly about others – Keep the distance from the group of people who always talks about others mistake and fault. Remember if you spend most of your time with toxic people then you also become toxic person because you cannot learn a good thing with bad people. Refuse yourself from joining these kinds of group who always spread negative vibes.
- Avoid making unflattering comments about others – Never use harsh words about anyone. If someone doing bad with you then he will face their own “Karma” but you are a pure soul so never say something uncomplimentary about others. Whenever you are going to say anything, use your kindness, it will never make you regret.
- Develop a positive mind-set – Almost in my every post, I always mention about positive attitude because it’s a key of happy and satisfy life. Your positive mind develop a positive attitude inside you and it will never allow you to do something wrong in your life. A positive mind – set is necessary for everyone. A positive person will never say anything bad about anyone.
If you want to be a good person who has nice reputation and respected by everyone then you should remember these things, you should remember that whatever you are going to say, it will reflects your character instantly. Your words make your image in front of your audience. And your words make your audience judgemental about you. If you spread positivity then you will get back good feedback and it makes you a reputational and respected person.